As a Father
The inability to do anything presented a need for something I hate: asking for help.
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Prove It
Every English class that I teach begins with a daily journal prompt on the screen. It is so predictable, in fact, that my beloved students will look to the screen as soon as they enter my room and panic with wide-eyed horror and confusion if a question does not await them. Are we having class? […]
Read More Prove ItWhy a Relationship Won’t Fix Your Issues (But…Can)
A good friend of mine recently entered into a wonderful relationship. His random texted questions are punctuated with the same angst and is-this-okay-ness of the first few months of my relationship with the fiancé. Ah, the honeymoon phase, filled with bliss and confusion. I’ve already written about some of the lies that media tells us […]
Read More Why a Relationship Won’t Fix Your Issues (But…Can)Just Listen
During my nine months of intense character-refining with 10 others near University of Michigan, I was shown many things about myself. One is that I have a terrible habit of interrupting people.
Read More Just ListenWhy Good-byes are the Worst (but Not)
I’ve always been a messy goodbye-sayer. Dormitories where I hung my hammock, trailer homes that shook with the morning stroll, a basement bedroom next to an overly active washing machine…sure, I’m a lover of places. But of course, the pain of leaving is evoked by my torn heart strings wound around those lovely people.
Read More Why Good-byes are the Worst (but Not)When It Doesn’t Feel Fair
I remember being less than half my age, driving with the family in my stepdad’s pristine car–and when I say pristine, I mean the full extent of that word. We were going somewhere to do something, the details are long forgotten. But not the moment we arrived at our destination. Somewhere near the backseat, under […]
Read More When It Doesn’t Feel FairMeaningful Relationships | How to Manage Darker Days
Maintaining meaningful relationships amidst anxiety is both extremely difficult and extremely necessary. It’s difficult because when anxious, we often push away those closest and whose care we need the most. It’s necessary because often the only people who can lift our spirits and talk us out of it are those closest to us. I’m running away from that which can help me.
Read More Meaningful Relationships | How to Manage Darker DaysHow to Manage Darker Days
Many are reluctant to express a struggle for fear of being labeled. “I mean, yea I get super worried, my thoughts race, and I can’t function sometimes, but I don’t like, you know…have anxiety.”
Read More How to Manage Darker DaysWhy I’m on Facebook but Ignoring Your Texts: Anxious Confessions
“Girl, I totally feel you. It’s weird how functional I can be with certain things when I’m overwhelmed but completely shut down when it comes to responding to messages or emails…so YES. TOTALLY UNDERSTAND.”
Read More Why I’m on Facebook but Ignoring Your Texts: Anxious ConfessionsExceptional Loneliness
Obstructed vision of people in the same experience can lead me to believe I am the only one.Experiencing life without meaningful connection can lead to exceptional loneliness, and the devil can use perceived loneliness against us.
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